This has been a really, really, really tough year. It’s been Covid-19 with 1.42 million deaths around the globe, also causing world-wide financial disruption and disaster. It’s been George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, and scores of others fueling Black Lives Matter and sending millions to streets to march against oppression. It’s been a bitter and divisive fight between Trump vs. Biden, right vs. left. It’s been natural disasters ravaging the US with massive hurricanes, wildfires, and earthquakes. And all of the global disasters have felt like gasoline poured on the fires of our regularly-scheduled personal crises. I am feeling the toll of a very difficult year stacked on top of the recent passing of my sweet mother after a 3-year fight with cancer. It was an honor to be with her as she died. I know I’m not alone, we have all felt the oppressive pain and pressure of a truly unforgettable year.
But as we are getting ready to tell 2020 to shove off (a nicer word than I’d normally use considering the year we’ve had), it’s important to remember that just like many forest fires, we will grow back after these personal and global disasters. And when we do, we will be much stronger because of it. In fact, some trees actually require the inferno of a wildfire to break open their cones and seed a new generation. Some of the pain we are feeling this year is the necessary fire we need to seed a brighter future. Other pain we’re feeling this year is the pressure of new things now being born. One of these things is a global movement of consciousness. We can no longer stand by and watch to see what happens for our future. There is a reckoning happening. There is a global movement being born and the world is calling on you to join this movement, to wake up to your potential, to step up your Awareness or to step out of the way. The world needs you to seed the future.
As a world, we are waking up to our potential and purpose, causing many old paradigms and institutions to disintegrate under the strain of this change in global consciousness. Right before our eyes, we are watching armies demobilize, countries working together more than ever before, and institutionalized racism, bigotry, sexism, and disregard for the environment begin to crack and crumble. As a world, we are recognizing those things which are fundamentally opposite of our highest potential, and in the immortal words of Twisted Sister, “We’re not gonna take it … anymore!” You can be sure that at many of the funerals for some of the old ways of the world, you will see me dancing on the pews, and singing this refrain.
But despite the joy in the passing of some old and broken institutions, we are nonetheless in the dying process of old ways of being and we all feel the pain of that revolution. We feel it in the form of collective rage, disgust, and an uneasiness or confusion of what the future will bring.
All this death reminds me of the Hindu goddess, Kali. In representations of her, she looks like she could be the lovechild between Gene Simmons and a pirate. She has wild eyes, a skirt made of severed arms and heads, a threatening sword raised above her head, and blood dripping off her long, serpentine tongue. Yet, Kali is regarded as a compassionate deity. That’s right. She’s the one who says, “Enough, already!” and severs what needs to die. In truth, what she represents is killing our unconsciousness, putting asunder our old self so that we can be resurrected as our most conscious beings. Still, blood is blood and even though some things do need to die, this year has shown us that even necessary deaths can still hurt.
While some of the pain we feel this year is from things changing and dying, it’s also true that some of the pain we are experiencing is actually birthing pains. Whether we asked for it or not, we are being born into something new. After the death of what didn’t serve us any longer, it’s normal to feel the pressure of confusion about how to reinvent ourselves. We have identified as that old and broken thing for so long, we don’t know who we’d be as something else. Though we are being born into something new, we may experience the pressure that comes with that newness.
Yet, in truth, there are powerful resources that can be a tremendous asset in times like these, such as a robust internal sense of empathy, a broad perspective over life’s purpose and problems, and a ready capacity to be present with what is. When we can draw upon our ability to be compassionate, responsive and not reactive, empathetic, and loving to self, we can better access the greater love that is available outside the chaos or trigger.
But even with the world waking up to Awareness, who’s going to clean up this messy world?
What have you discovered about yourself during this year and what has helped you to resource your best self to manage this difficult year?
I want to keep this conversation going so over the next few days, I'll be sending you information about a new offering you can use to help you step up to the challenges of the world as the person that you were destined to be.
Be safe. Be well. Talk Soon.
